Each of you might begin with three small things: a familiar habit you share, a time you felt grateful to one another, and someone you would like to thank in person. These can become starting points for an introduction, a speech or a choice of music. Choose what suits the atmosphere you want.
An outgoing couple may enjoy more interaction; a quieter couple might express themselves through a few words, photographs or a song. Be clear about what you want to include, what you are happy to share and what should remain private. If a story involves friends or family, let them know the relevant arrangements too.
A personal wedding can be beautifully simple. Let the words sound like you and the plans reflect what matters, with a little space left for the laughter and feeling that arrive of their own accord.
One small place to begin
Write down three small things each, then choose one you would most like to bring into the day.
These notes offer general planning guidance. Adapt them to your wedding, your family and the arrangements you agree with each team. Confirm what each service includes before booking.
